Starting school is a huge step for children and a major moment for parents too! Each state in Australia sets its own school starting age rules, so it’s completely understandable if you find the whole thing a bit puzzling. This difference in school start age across states means parents have to juggle making choices based on their child’s unique needs while also considering their child’s age – it’s no small task!
Here’s a quick rundown of how varied these ages can be and the latest age by which children must be enrolled in the first year of school in Australia:
Seeing all these dates lined up, it’s no wonder parents might scratch their heads thinking about the best time for their child to start school!
Choosing when to send your child to school can stir up excitement and a fair bit of worry. With children as young as 4 years and 8 months possibly mingling with those close to 6, it’s tricky deciding whether this year or next is better. This age mix impacts more than just when they celebrate their birthdays – it affects their readiness in all sorts of ways, from how they handle a full day at school to how they get along with their classmates.
Even if your child’s date of birth makes their starting age guaranteed, chronological age is not the only thing to be thinking about as you send your child to school for the first time.
To make a successful start to primary school, your child will need to be developmentally ready for this important ‘next chapter’ in their young life.
How’s your child doing with those practical skills like zipping up their coat or packing away their toys? Can they follow what the teacher says without someone walking them through it step-by-step? These bits of independence really help smooth their day at school.
Is your child a social butterfly? Can they play nicely with others, share toys, and take turns, even when they don’t win the game? Handling the highs and lows of playtime is a big part of getting by in the social whirlwind of school life.
Ask yourself: can your child handle the hustle and bustle of a full school day? Think about them managing without a nap, lugging around a backpack, or navigating the playground. In a year or two, how will your child’s physical skills compare with the other children in the class? Will they be able to match it in the playground and on the sporting field with their peers? It’s the day-to-day stuff that really shows if they’re ready.
Think about how your child asks for help, chats with friends, or tells you about their day. Being able to express themselves clearly and understand others is key when they’re in a busy classroom setting. It’s even more important for them to have the vocabulary they need to be able to clearly tell you (or another trusted adult, such as a teacher) if something goes wrong or is not right.
It’s all about those moments of frustration or excitement. How does your child deal with a puzzle that’s a bit tricky or having to wait their turn? Can they manage the demands of other children who think and behave differently to them. Can they manage not being ‘the boss’ of a game, or not being first in the line? These little tests of patience and persistence are big indicators of school readiness.
One of the biggest challenges for young children is the ability to focus on a task for an extended period. Can your child listen to a story without getting distracted, or concentrate on a task until completion? This ability will be crucial in a classroom setting where they will need to focus on what they are expected to learn and the new skills they will need to master.
Chat with your child’s preschool teachers and see what they think. They see all sorts of children and their insights can be golden. Ask specific question about each of the skills sets above so that you can get the benefit of their professional guidance for your child. Watching how your child plays and learns at home and in other settings can give you clues about whether they’re ready to take the leap into school life.
Ultimately, the goal is for your child to thrive from day one, not just get by. School should feel like a great adventure, not a tough challenge. And remember, the decisions you make now may have a big impact on what your child’s experience over the next 13 years (yes! That’s how long most Australia children are at school!)
If that means giving them a little more time to grow, that’s perfectly okay. Early education is all about setting the stage for a lifetime of learning – it’s not a race.
Choosing when your child should start school isn’t just about following rules. It’s about making sure they’re ready to embrace learning with joy and confidence.
If you have concerns about your child’s school readiness, Kids First has LOTS of resources to help. From our multi-disciplinary team of therapists and early education specialists, to our Ready Set School groups, our best-selling book SCHOOL READY and online School Ready Toolkit, there are many ways that we can help your child to make a smooth start to ‘big school’.
Call Kids First today to on 9938 5419 to discover how we can support your child or follow the link below for more information about School Readiness supports at Kids First.